Saturday, November 24, 2012

It's a .......

GIRL!!!! I will be an aunt to precious little Laney Adyson Hickman come March.  Yesterday we went to Laura's parents in Clinton to attend her and Will's reveal party.  It was the first time I had met anyone in her (very large Italian) family.  They are so warm and inviting.  Her dad is the Godfather.  He's so cool. 

We ate dinner then eagerly awaited the cake-cutting. Will found out a little over a month ago what gender BH (Baby Hickman) is but kept it a secret.  Very impressive.  We were asked to wear blue if we thought the baby was a boy and red if we thought the baby was a girl.  All the Hickmans except Yogi wore blue.  Most of Laura's family wore red.  BH is going to be the ninth grandchild on Laura's side and the first on Will's. 

As Laura and Will were cutting into the cake, my heart was beating so fast.  The anticipation heightened as Laura tried to get the piece of cake out.  Lo and behold, the inside was red.  IT'S A GIRL!!!  Everyone started screaming.  I really thought Yogi would start crying because BH is the first girl born into his family.  He and Gail were just beaming.

Will and Laura, we are so, so excited to have Laney in the family.  I can't wait to start buying her things.  With Maggie and me, Laney is going to be so super spoiled.  I am such a proud aunt right now.  I love you Laney Adyson!

Laney Adyson Hickman
Braxton William Hickman
Yogi was the only Hickman who wore red.
Newly engaged!
Cutting into the cake!
Love the joy on their faces.
The Hickman girls

Monday, November 19, 2012

Happy Birthday Mimi!


Phew, my fifth birthday post of the month.  We are celebrating Mimi's birthday today! My Mimi is one of the most polite women you will meet.  She loves to use cloth napkins.  Her clothes always match (I think recently she has started to pair down her shoes).  Her table manners are impeccable (she is glad I finally learned how to cut my food properly).  She is one of the best cooks I know...her chocolate chip cheesecake is one of my favorite desserts to this day. 

Mimi is also extremely creative.  We would alternate Christmas and Thanksgiving growing up.  Growing up, she would direct us grandchildren in a production of the birth of Jesus or of what the first Thanksgiving meal was like.  We would have scripts and costumes. We would fight over who could be Mary, but I was often an angel. So me, right?

I think her love of plays comes from her love of the written word.  Mimi was the secretary to the superintendent, but after having my uncles and mom, she started working at the church library.  I can remember visiting her during the summer and helping in the library.  I would help her catalog the new books, stamping the inside and writing the library card for the file catalog.  I would also help her shelve the books that were returned. I loved spending my time helping her with the library.  She has such a passion for books. 

She and my Pappaw have been married for over 65 years.  Their love for each other shows more now than it did 10 years ago.  Brett and I hope to have a life-long marriage like they have.

I love you Mimi!  Looking forward to seeing you tomorrow!

Mimi and Pappaw's 50th Anniversary

Sunday, November 18, 2012

My Biltmore Experience

This weekend, Brett's parents came into town to join us on our trip to the Biltmore.  We had bought tickets to the Candlelight Christmas Evenings to get into the Christmas mood.  Plus it was something fun to do on our first weekend without a football game.

Here's a bit of background I took from the Biltmore's website:
The Vanderbilts were one of the oldest and best-known families in America...Upon his death, the Commodore (Cornelius Vanderbilt) left most of his $100 million estate—a sum that made him the wealthiest industrialist of his time—to his eldest son, William Henry.
One of the eight children of William Henry...George Washington Vanderbilt [was] born in 1862. Unlike the rest of his family, however, George Vanderbilt was little attracted to commerce and fashionable society. He preferred the world of learning and travel, visiting Europe at age 10 and journeying to Europe, Asia, or Africa about once a year throughout his adult life. It was while traveling in the mountains of North Carolina that Vanderbilt first glimpsed the site for his future country home.
Construction of Biltmore House was under way in 1889.  The celebrated architect Richard Morris Hunt modeled the house on three famous châteaux built in France in the early16th-century. It would feature 4 acres of floor space, 250 rooms, 34 bedrooms, 43 bathrooms, and 65 fireplaces. The basement alone would house a swimming pool, gymnasium and changing rooms, bowling alley, servants' quarters, kitchens, and more.
Even after six years, Biltmore House was not complete when George Vanderbilt opened it on Christmas Eve 1895; work would continue for years. Its scale continues to be astounding: the house contains more than 11 million bricks; the massive stone spiral staircase rises four floors and has 102 steps. Through its center hangs an iron chandelier suspended from a single point, containing 72 electric light bulbs.
So now that you know a little bit, I'll tell you about my Biltmore experience.  We decided to leave around 3:30 and got to the Biltmore around 4:30.  Once we entered the Estate, we had to drive down a 3-mile "driveway" to get to the house.  After we parked, we walked to the house.  We're walking through the woods when all of the sudden, BAM, there's the house!


I honestly had no idea what to expect.  I knew what it looked like (from Richie Rich and history books), but didn't know anything else aside from that.  I kept on telling Brett over and over that I didn't feel like I was in the United States.  I don't mean to be rude but it seemed un-American.  I say that because of its grandeur.  I have never seen a building, let alone a house, like that in my entire life.  As you read above, the house was modeled off of three 16th century French châteaux.  Maybe that's also why I didn't feel like I was in the United States... the architecture was different from anything I've see.  To know that a family lived in there until the 1950s blows my mind.  I can't even fathom it.  I'd be scared living in a house that huge!



Since we had some time before our 7 p.m. house entry, we went to the stables.  The stables are located on the left of the house (when you're looking at the front).  Though they once held horses, the stables now contain multiple shops.  Needless to say, Gail and I enjoyed our time looking at all the Christmas ornaments and little stores.  One of the stores had some samples to taste and drink.  Yogi really liked the key lime cheeseball, and Brett LOVED the wassail, a spice blend that you can mix with hot apple cider or tea.

We were allowed to enter the home around 7.  On our way in, we picked up a little booklet.  The booklet contained maps and room-by-room information.  When we entered each room, we read what the booklet said about it.  Here are some of the things that wowed me:
  • The grandeur of all the rooms was just awesome...really I was left in awe and disbelief. 
  • Many of the rooms had tapestries made in the mid-1500s.  I've never seen something in person that was that old.
  • The library contained nearly half of George's 23,000-volume collection.  There was a spiral staircase that led to a second story full of books.  This was Brett's favorite room.
  • The women servants/workers lived in the house in the servants' quarters, but the male servants lived above the stables.
The house just seemed to keep on going and going.  It took us about an hour and a half to get through the whole tour.  I would definitely go again, but probably during the daytime so you can see the estate through the windows of the house. Once we left, we had to drive about 8 miles to get out of the estate, riding along the French Broad ad Swannanoa Rivers.

Sorry for the long post.  We didn't make it to see the Antler Hill Village or the Gardens, but I'm sure they are beautiful.  I would highly, highly recommend going to see the Estate.  You won't regret it.

Happy Birthday Mama!


Today is my wonderful mama's birthday! My mom is a great example of a Godly woman and wife.  She has unlimited amounts of patience (something I do not have but strive towards).  She is selfless as she Oba's caretaker and often has to give up what she may want to do in order to make sure Oba is alright.  She is diligent in having her quiet time every morning.

My mom is the definition of a prayer warrior.  She has been praying for my dad, brother, and me since I can remember, often going to Moms in Touch (a prayer group for moms) every week.  Mom will still text me before going to Moms in Touch on Thursdays asking if I have anything that needs prayer.  When I call her upset or stressed, she prays for and with me on the phone.

I only hope that I can be the wife and mother that she has been to my dad and my brother and me.  I learn so much from her everyday.  Even though I can't be there, I'm glad Chris can to help her celebrate today.  I love you, Mom! Can't wait to see you in two days.


Thursday, November 15, 2012

It's Official!

I have the best sisters (in-love) ever: Laura and MaggieSam, Brett's brother, popped the question to Maggie today.  She will officially be a Hickman next year.  She's been considered a part of the family for a while though.

Sam and Maggie are perfect complements of each other.  Maggie keeps Sam in check, but Sam also brings out the goofy side of Maggie.  They are inseparable and never seem to tire from each others company.  She knows how to deal with his embarrassing comments (ones that would most definitely make me blush).  They are two people who are so happy and in love.  It is evident.

I am so happy for these two.  Soak it all in and enjoy this stage in your life.  We love you!






Monday, November 12, 2012

Chronicles of a Coach's Wife: I Survived

Well, I survived my very first football season as a coach's wife. While it definitely was not easy, there was so much reward.  The season was rough in the beginning, with NGU going 0-5.  It was pretty tense at the house, but Brett and I are a team so we hung on.

Anyway, Saturday was senior day and military appreciation day.  I knew it would be an emotional day, as Brett started coaching at NGU the same time this class of young men started.  The seniors and their families were honored before the game.  Brett even wheeled Jonathon out onto the field (he broke his tibia during last week's game and had surgery on Thursday).

AJ, Alice, and James. Love AJ's sweet mom.
Nolan and his family.
Wheeling Jonathon out
Sharpe and his family.
Love AJ's smile here. Special man.


NGU ended up beating Virginia University of Lynchburg 10-3.  The defense got three interceptions.  After each interception, the defender who caught it ran the ball over to Jonathon.   If there was one word to describe this year's team, it would be tenacity.  Even though they were plagued with injuries and went 0-5 to start the season, the team and coaches bounced back and continued to believe in the system and each other.  They bonded tighter through the trials and it showed at the end of the season.  The Jonathon event is just one little sign of their solidarity.  NGU's win on Saturday meant they finished the season on a 4-game winning streak, and won 5 of the last 6.  They were just short of .500 with a season record of 5-6.

Love my coach.
Brett with a lot of the seniors.

Brett with Jonathon (and one of the footballs from an interception).
AJ and Brett.

I am so proud of this team and these coaches.  I am honored to have been a part of the journey... it really was a journey.  Now onto recruiting!

Sunday, November 11, 2012

Happy Veterans Day

Happy Veterans Day! If it weren't for two veterans, I would not be here. 

My dad's dad (Air Force) was stationed in Japan when he met my grandma.  From what Oba has told me, he was the officer in charge of checking up with the Japanese police office after the war.  Oba was the secretary at the police office, and all her colleagues didn't like John talking with her.  Even though Oba was 6 years his senior and she didn't know much (if any) English, they fell in love and got married.  While on active duty in Japan, John got leukemia.  He was brought back to the U.S. and passed a couple months before my dad was born.

Pappaw was in the Navy during World War II (before he and Mimi were married).  His ship was in the Pacific.  I absolutely love listening to his stories.  He has one specific story that makes me laugh.  When Pappaw's boat passed a certain spot in the Pacific (I believe it was the International Date Line), he was told he had to get his ear pierced!! I don't think he kept it for long.

There's something about the military that brings so much emotion.  The veterans were asked to salute during the Star Spangled Banner at the Byrnes game on Friday.  I looked around at the respect, and yet somberness, on their faces.  I can't imagine what these men and women have seen over the course of their lives.  Brought tears to my eyes.

Thank you Pappaw, John, all the other veterans, and current and future military personnel.  We so appreciate your service and sacrifices.

Veterans being honored at the NGU game on Saturday.

Guest Post: Not Just a Game

This is the first guest post on my blog.  I may be a little biased, but the writer is a pretty wonderful, Godly woman: my mom.  After she came to her first NGU game about a month ago, she commented on how different it was than what she expected.  I was curious as to why it was so different for her, and thought you might like to hear her firsthand experience and thoughts. Thanks for writing this Mom.  I'm glad you got to see and experience a little taste of our lives.  Without further ado, here is her story...

This was going to be so fun! I hadn't been to a football game in years. We were really looking forward to seeing our son-in-law's coaching skills and watching his team play. We found out later he was going to be making calls from the press box, so we wouldn't see him "in action", but it was great to say hi before the game started as he stopped to give Sara a quick kiss.
However, since our daughter is a football coach's wife, the game experience was totally different than I expected.
We arrived at Sara and Brett's home on Friday night. It was a relaxed evening; Sara made a good meal and we all just visited, watched TV, and spent time together.
Saturday was a different story.
Brett went in to the office early so we were lazy in the morning. He came back at lunch and I sensed a change in his demeanor from the evening before. When he was getting ready to leave for the school, Sara gave him a kiss and said, "Go get 'em coach!" John said, "Good luck!" And then I added, "And remember it's just a game." Bad call!
Brett said goodbye and left. Sara immediately corrected me saying it isn't just a game, it's his career. I felt terrible! There was nothing I could do to change my comment, so I resolved to be more careful in how I responded in the future (a struggle I've had for 54 years!).
There was an air of anticipation and excitement when we arrived.The football stadium is really nice, only 6 years old and the bleachers even had backs, which was great for John's back and his mom, Kiku. Kiku said they would win because she was there to cheer for them.
I could tell Sara was tense. When Brett's team scored the first touchdown, we all yelled and jumped up and down. Sara was happy, and there was such relief on her face. I was beginning to understand the pressure she felt and that it wasn't just a game!
Not remembering the details or all the plays, I do know we scored a field goal and then the other team made a touchdown, so we were only up a few points. Sara's face said it all. She was very concerned the other team was going to score again and take the lead. Again, this wasn't just a game.
At the half we were still ahead. I told Sara I had no idea how much stress coaches and their wives were under!  I was thrilled when we scored again, for the points on the scoreboard, and to see the tension begin to fade away on her face. That brought even more joy.
We won that day. A blessing for the team? Yes. And much relief and joy for our daughter and son-in-law.
I won't ever think about football in the same way again. It isn't just a game! Hours of planning and training go into every game. The coaches want their guys to play their best, not have any injuries and know they've done all they could to prepare their team. There are livelihoods on the line, coaches' and players' futures at stake, a lot of stress, and even more prayer!

Friday, November 9, 2012

Chronicles of a Coach's Wife: Hanging on and Letting Go

On Wednesday night, we had over the senior defensive players since this weekend is the last game.  I knew most of the players by number, if not by name.  This senior class is especially important to Brett:. They are the first class that Brett has coached all four years.  Brett's first year at NGU was their first year.

Brett wanted to do something special for them so I made some homemade lasagna and cheesecake.The guys ate the food but left a little too much cheesecake left for me to eat.  I will blame the next 5 pounds I gain on them.  This group of seniors gets along so well.  They sat for about an hour just reminiscing and laughing about the past four years.  It was like getting a little glimpse into their lives and their relationships with each other and my husband. I loved witnessing that.

Of the eight players that came over, Brett has been the position coach for one of them for all four years: AJ.  AJ was one of three players that we invited to our wedding (all three players came).  I didn't expect it, but he and his family drove from southern South Carolina to Raleigh to help us celebrate.  His parents are the sweetest, most devoted parents.  They go to every single game.  AJ is such a polite, kind young man.  I know he will always hold a special place in Brett's heart.

Tomorrow is senior day. I know I've only been a coach's wife for one season, but I have been emotionally invested in these men for three seasons.  It will be hard for me to see them play their last game, but I know there is a time for everything, including letting go and seeing them into the next stage of their lives.  I have grown to love these young men.  I hope they keep in touch with Brett (and me through the process).  I'm sure tomorrow will be a very emotional day for the players, families, and coaches.  I'll post some pictures about that early next week.  For now, enjoy the picture of Brett and the seniors on defense!



Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Happy Birthday Brother!

Phew third birthday post in three days...but I love it. Happy birthday to a very special brother of mine, Chris!  We used to fight like no tomorrow growing up, but my brother is one of my favorite people.  He is funny, smart, competitive, and kind.  While he's been through a lot in the past couple of years, he continues to grow in his love for the Lord and his understanding of God's character.  If he's not cool enough already, click here to read an online article about him.  Makes me a proud sister.  Pretty much, if you don't know him, you're missing out.

I hope you have a wonderful birthday, brother!! I guess we'll have to wait until Thanksgiving for my ritual birthday kiss on the cheek.  Can't wait to see you.  Love you!!!