Let me explain what I mean by the inevitability of birth. There are so many things in life that can be put off until a later time. I can wait another hour to eat, another week to clean the house, another month to go shopping. Even deadlines are sometimes flexible. Birth is not.
Even if I go past my due date, Henry will be born. He can't stay in there forever (thank goodness). I know this fact, it's just hitting me a little differently this week. Part of me is counting down the days until he comes because I am getting more and more uncomfortable and the Braxton Hicks contractions are getting more intense. The other part of me is nervous and scared by the inevitability of Henry's birth. I know it's going to hurt. I know my body won't be the same after he's born. My body has and will continue to go through changes.
When I get overwhelmed by the thought of the pain of labor, I try to remember this:
A woman giving birth to a child has pain because her time has come; but when her baby is born she forgets the anguish because of her joy that a child is born into the world. John 16:21Once Henry is here, everything will be worth it. I just have to remember that through labor.
Any other mamas out there have this thought before giving birth? How did you deal with the inevitability of birth?
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